We don't just project our subconscious feelings onto other people; sometimes we even project onto inanimate objects. If you find yourself getting irritated by things like: elevators, the street lights, your pants, ad infinitum, perhaps that's a good indicator it's time for self-reflection. Perhaps you're angry or upset with something much deeper than the object or person.
I'm inclined to think the good things people say about me are more valid than the bad, but perhaps it's not so harmful to reflect.
Journeying the path to enlightenment, you will encounter many brick walls.
If you don't believe it yourself, how do you expect others to believe you?
There are no clear answers for most of our personal dilemmas.
It's possible and likely that a lot of the things you think you know, you really don't know.
Life is too short to spend too much time complaining about what you don't have. At a certain point, you must act.
It's mostly all in your head.
It's okay if you have nothing to say.
Sometimes you gotta check out before you can check in.
(...By that I mean: sometimes you have to give into what you're avoiding (feelings-fear, anger, sadness) before you can actually feel better, to feel like a complete, connected person.)