Posts in Reflections
Perceived Needs

More often than not, what you think you need is only an illusion-something imposed upon you by another person or social structure. Often times, these perceived needs are really just a distraction and are, ultimately, unsatisfying.

There will always be a bigger, faster, "better" option waiting to pull you into a place of discontentment after a perceived need is met. 

 

 

Criminals

A lot of men say they are criminals, but they're really not. 
A lot of criminals will say they are not.
A lot of criminals will say they are, and it shouldn't surprise you when you end up with less than you had before they came around. 

 

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Worry

Worry. I worry about my dog sometimes, but my worry is not always rooted in reality. My worry mostly comes from my own internal interpretations of reality, influenced by past and present circumstance. Ultimately, my dog is happy and healthy, and for him, there is no other reality than the one I've fashioned for him.

Ego

An ego is important for personal resilience, but the ego can quickly take over and get in the way of interpersonal relationships. There must be a balance of ego, for personal protection, and empathy, for relationships. 

 

 

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Pretend

I was away from technology for a week-no internet or cell phone reception and had the thought, "Oh, let me call people I don't like to pretend to be somebody that I'm not."

Why? Why would I do that? Life is too short to pretend to be somebody that you're not. Inauthenticity causes anxiety, and repression leads to projection. 

Risk

I was walking on some rocks along a river with my boyfriend and almost slipped and fell. My boyfriend began to walk closely to keep me from falling, and I said to him, "Can you please give me a little space? I think when you're around it makes me more cautious, and I don't trust myself enough." He laughed at my honesty; I, at a moment of self-awareness. 

The weight of the message lingered after the laughter faded:
Sometimes we take less of a risk when we know we have someone on whom we can fall.